What you do cannot turn you into a label
Failing cannot turn you into a failure, no matter how often you fail. You can’t be a failure, any more than you can be a duck. What you do is one thing, and who you are is another. Learn to become aware and alert to the ego’s illogical self-talk and it’s habitual practice of sticking labels on yourself and others. When you recognize a label, pause and ask yourself if it’s based on fact, or opinions and generalizations. When you look in a mirror, you see a human being. That is a fact. A “good” or “bad” human being is an opinion.